So you finally meet a guy who’s cute, smart, and just so happens to think the same about you.
You have a little awkward chit-chat, maybe you flirt a little, and eventually, you exchange numbers. Before you know it, you’re texting nonstop, hanging out several times a week and having amazing sex. He almost seems too good to be true… so is he?
Here are 11 signs he’s not quite what he seems and he’s playing you for a fool:
1. He is the perfect guy when you are alone and no one is watching.
Think about when you spend the most time with this guy. Is it on a mattress? If most of your so-called dates start and end in the bedroom, you may want to rethink his motives.
2. All your plans are when it’s convenient for him.
Who’s in control here anyway? Do you make plans with him? Does he just drop you a text when he needs a quickie? I hate to break this to you, but you could be just there to fulfill his sexual needs on a bi-weekly or monthly basis.
3. He’s a serial texter, not a serial dater.
When a guy’s playing you for a fool, he needs to keep you interested. Using the miracle of modern tech, he can simply send you a few messages throughout the day. Typing “Hey, how are you?”, “Thinking about you” or any other BS text takes less than ten seconds, but it will keep him in the game.
4. He’s so secretive and mysterious.
It’s all part of his charm, but there’s likely a reason that this guy never tells you anything real about himself. He doesn’t want you to know. If he’s planning on getting all he can out of you and then leaving you high and dry, he can’t have you being too deeply entwined in his life.
5. He is very quick about sex.
When you see him, he’s ready to go. The moment he walks through your door, he’s already undoing your bra in an effort to get down to what really matters. While you may think you’re too hot to resist, don’t take his actions as any kind of compliment. All this really tells you is that he sees you as a one-dimensional plaything.
6. He does not want to hang with your friends.
Being seriously into someone means that you want to share almost every area of your life with them. Introducing your main man to your pals is kind of a massive deal. Still, you need to be wary of a guy who doesn’t want to meet them.